Getting kids to brush their teeth can feel like a never-ending battle. From the toddler who runs at the sight of a toothbrush to the pre-teen who insists they “already brushed,” even when their breath says otherwise — parents everywhere know the struggle. But brushing doesn’t have to be a chore. In fact, with the right approach, it can become a fun and positive part of your child’s daily routine.

At Dr. Surillo’s Center for Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics, we believe that early dental habits shape a lifetime of healthy smiles. That’s why we’re sharing some creative, parent-tested strategies to help turn brushing battles into brushing breakthroughs.

1. Turn Brushing Into a Game

Children love to play — so why not make brushing a game? There are dozens of ways to inject fun into a two-minute brush session. Try setting a timer and challenge your child to be a “plaque-busting superhero” who has to defeat all the “sugar bugs” hiding on their teeth. You can even turn it into a friendly competition if you have more than one child: who can brush all their teeth the cleanest?

There are also apps like Brush DJ and Disney Magic Timer that make brushing interactive and exciting, with music, rewards, and animated characters that cheer kids on as they clean their teeth.

2. Use a Toothbrush They Love

Kids are more likely to engage with a toothbrush that excites them. Choose a brush in their favorite color or one featuring beloved characters from TV or movies. Some brushes light up, sing songs, or play music for exactly two minutes — making the brushing time feel less like a task and more like entertainment.

Let your child pick out their own brush and toothpaste at the store. Giving them this small choice can help them feel more in control and invested in the process.

3. Create a Brushing Chart with Rewards

Brushing charts work wonders with visual learners and goal-oriented kids. Design a simple chart with a week’s worth of brushing mornings and nights. Each time your child brushes, they get to put a fun sticker on the chart. Once they reach a certain number of stickers, reward them with a non-sugary treat: an extra bedtime story, a trip to the park, or choosing the next family movie night flick.

Be sure to celebrate their success enthusiastically to reinforce that brushing is a positive and proud accomplishment.

4. Make It a Family Affair

Kids learn by example. If they see you brushing and flossing regularly, they’ll be more likely to follow suit. Consider brushing together as a family. Play some music and turn it into a two-minute dance party while everyone brushes.

You can also take this opportunity to talk about the importance of oral hygiene. Keep the tone light and upbeat, sharing how brushing helps keep your smile bright and your breath fresh.

5. Tell Silly Brushing Stories

Turn brushing into a time for storytelling. Create a fun narrative where your child’s toothbrush is a brave explorer on a mission through the jungle of their mouth. Maybe the molars are mountains to be climbed, or the tongue is a mischievous dragon that needs to be tamed.

Kids thrive on imagination, and weaving in these silly stories helps distract them from the task while building positive associations with brushing.

6. Use a Kid-Friendly Toothpaste

Sometimes, kids resist brushing simply because they dislike the taste of the toothpaste. Minty flavors that adults prefer can be too strong or “spicy” for younger taste buds. Try switching to a fluoride toothpaste in a kid-friendly flavor like bubblegum, watermelon, or strawberry.

Just make sure the toothpaste is ADA-approved and safe for your child’s age.

7. Sing a Toothbrushing Song

Songs are powerful tools for helping kids remember routines. Make up a fun toothbrushing song, or use a classic like “This is the Way We Brush Our Teeth.” Singing not only helps pass the time, but it also adds a layer of enjoyment to the experience.

Some electric toothbrushes even come with songs built in, playing music for the full two minutes to guide kids from start to finish.

8. Let Them Brush a Toy’s Teeth First

Toddlers often like to mimic what they see. If your little one is resisting, let them brush the teeth of their favorite stuffed animal or doll first. Then, explain it’s their turn next. This role reversal gives kids a sense of control and can ease them into brushing their own teeth.

Some parents even keep a spare toothbrush just for toys, turning brushing time into a fun little ritual for everyone involved.

9. Keep It Consistent

Above all, consistency is key. Make brushing part of your morning and bedtime routine — just like putting on pajamas or reading a book. The more brushing becomes a normal part of your child’s day, the less likely they are to resist it over time.

Even if there are protests in the beginning, stick with it. Patience and persistence will pay off.

Let Dr. Surillo Help You Build Brighter Smiles

If your child continues to resist brushing, it may help to schedule a visit with a friendly pediatric dentist. Sometimes, hearing about the importance of dental care from someone outside the family — especially a warm, caring professional — can make all the difference.

At Dr. Surillo’s Center for Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics in La Mesa, CA, we specialize in working with children of all ages — from anxious toddlers to independent teens — and helping them feel comfortable, confident, and excited about their dental health.

We’re here to support you and your child every step of the way, offering personalized care in a fun, welcoming environment. If you’re looking for a trusted la mesa pediatric dentist, we invite you to come see the difference at Dr. Surillo’s office.

Ready to turn brushing battles into healthy habits? Contact us today to schedule your child’s next appointment. Their smile is worth it!